9 Signs Your Partner is Going to Propose
It may feel like everyone is getting engaged around you, and you are continually thinking, "am I next?" It may be a complete surprise to you when the proposal happens, but there are going to be some small hints that your partner drops throughout the months leading up until the engagement. If there are any important expectations you have for your proposal, be sure to express those to your partner.
For example, if you want a fresh manicure for the perfect ring photo, tell them to give you some heads up to get your nails done. Or maybe you want your family to be around for it, so express that so they can plan accordingly.
Our biggest suggestion is to try not to read too far into everything that may be happening in you're lives. This way, you do not get overly excited about all the significant events happening in that year. However, it is okay to sniff out a few signs and signals that the proposal is going to be happening soon.
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HOW YOU KNOW YOUR PARTNER IS GOING TO PROPOSE:
1. They Are Being Secretive And Nervous
When you're in a relationship that is taking it to the next step of marriage, it is common for you two to share every detail going on in your lives, but all of a sudden, that isn't the case. When you ask them where they were, maybe they are sharing some of the details but leaving some out. Don't be overly worried because you don't want them to feel like you're accusing them of something other than ring buying or proposal planning. "This actually could be happening." It is safe to say that this is a familiar feeling while they are buying your ring and during the week of the proposal.
2. Talking About The Future
As your relationship becomes stronger, there may be conversations regarding your future together. This is a very good sign that a ring is in your near future. If your partner begins to say his goals or places he'd love to travel with you or maybe even retirement talk, these are all amazing hints for you to guess that this could be your lifelong best friend. As your partner begins to talk about these things, it's great to reciprocate those thoughts and feelings to ensure that you're committed and ready for this new adventure together.
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3. They Plan The Next Vacation
A vacation is a time for both of you to decompress, enjoy some relaxation, and explore new places together. It's safe to say that it is common for people to go on vacation and come home engaged, which could be you! If they begin to take charge of planning your next vacation together, this may be a sign he/she wants to surprise you.
This gives them the space to make those reservations and hire a tour guide and photographer without you knowing. There is something romantic about being secluded, perhaps even away from your phones, for you to celebrate a new journey. Maybe your friends and family are also there to kick off this exciting moment of your lives. Sit back, and if nothing else, enjoy going somewhere great with the one you love.
4. They Comment About Married Couples
You're at that age where you've been together quite some time, so the thought has crossed their mind. Now they notice the old couple in the park or your friends who just got married, and they seem happy, so it makes both of you even more excited for your time to come.
There is something special when you think about all of the memories you're about to experience through the next 50+ years. When you see your family members happily in love or ask them for their advice on marriage, that is an excellent sign that marriage is on your significant other's mind, and they are getting excited about what is yet to come.
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5. They Become Very Guarded About Their Phone
How can they hide their proposal plans with you looking over their shoulder? A sudden sense of privacy from you and their phone may be a sign your partner is going to propose. Again, try not to pry too much or over ask questions that make them seem more guilty than they are. They are doing something special for you, and it may be important for them to keep it a secret and a surprise for you. We're sure that hiding something this big is hard enough for them. Keep calm and enjoy the anticipation of your surprise romantic proposal.
6. Saving Not Spending
Maybe they're working overtime or picking up side jobs, all to make sure they can afford that ring, and plan for your future together. These are important things to keep in mind when you're approaching engagement talk.
Saving money means the potential of receiving your dream engagement ring and wedding bands. It also may allow you to take the next steps into being a married couple, such as buying a home or a new car together. Weddings can be expensive, but a house and children can be more expensive, so it is key to have an idea of financials for all of the things coming your way.
7. They Become Suddenly Interested In Jewelry
Just like you, they may begin to notice other rings that people are wearing while you're strolling through the park or eating dinner. Seeing your partner's curiosity peak regarding jewelry can also be a sign he/she wants to make sure they get the right ring. It can be hard to be discreet when they're snooping around in your jewelry box, but sometimes it is not that obvious. If they are asking you for your ring size, it may be an additional sign of they're purchasing the perfect ring for you!
8. They Reserve Dinner Or Make Your Favorite Meal
A date night is planned, whether it is at home or at the restaurant where your first date took place. There may be something sparkly in his pocket while you enjoy good drinks and company. With going to work, hitting the gym, or getting that master's degree, time spent together can end up pretty casual. This may be out of the blue or something that you are not used to, but take this time to enjoy each other's company. Who knows, you may be engaged by the end of dinner!
9. Included In More Plans With Friends And Family
They're going to be spending a whole lot of time with your family if all goes well. Getting to know someone's family is a natural step when thinking about a proposal. After all, if they marry you, they're also marrying your family too. It may be important to your family to be involved in the proposal, or maybe your partner is looking for advice while purchasing the perfect ring for you.
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IN CONCLUSION
We know it can be very tough when you're awaiting such a big and exciting moment in your life, but we promise it is worth the surprise and wait! Having your suspicions will allow you to be on your toes at all times but also giving both of you the right amount of time for you both to be ready. As the saying goes, the timing is always right for moments like these.
As you patiently wait for these signs of the beginning, continue to cherish every moment of your relationship, and allow for you two to grow and learn more about one another as each day goes on. Together forever is approaching quickly!
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